One day I will have my own laptop and be able to get on this thing a whole lot more. But in the mean time, you will just have to be a little patient for my posts.
So I have been really thinking a lot about relationships and what they involve, what makes them a good and helthy relationship and what makes them a bad relationship and what brings in the positive and negative things and how we can avoid the negative.bad things.
It seems as though I have seen nothing but people in relationships that don’t seem healthy or good for them. I am no expert or anything, it is just my opinion but as much as I would love to have someone who loves me for who I am and wouldn’t want anything else than to be with me for the rest of their life, I am so glad I am not “tied down” to anyone right now. I am trying to concentrate on school and I have some HUGE plans this next year and a half where I know if I had someone by my side, things would probably become difficult. Or maybe not.
Anyways, I have realized that with all this drama with my friends and their man that there are some things that shouldn’t be part of a relationship and some things that should be.
Here are some things I think are important in a relationship that I want in my future relationship (there is no specific order):
sense of humor
Gosh I can go one but yo uknow how your brain gets a little fart…well it just did. I don’t want to be so stubborn and get mad over stupid little things when I am in a relationship. I want to be free spirited and enjoy every minute like it is my last. I want to take in every flaw of the one I love and find something good in each one of them. I want to not go to bed mad or leave the house angry. I want to love him with every last bit of me. I want to love him through thick and thin. I want to love life with him. I want to hold him with tenderness, have the patience that love demands, to speak when words are needed, and to share the silence when they’re not, to live within the warmth of your heart and always call it home, no matter what challenges might carry us apart, we will always find a way back to each other, to fiercely love you in all your forms now and forever and over all, I want to remember that this is a once in a lifetime love. (yeah so what if I got some of that from a movie…It really is everything I want).
I want to do my all in making the relationship the best one for my love and to make him want to be happy to come home to me everyday after work and dread leaving me in the morning for work. I want people to see the love that we have for each other and I don’t want to loose it as we get older, I want it to grow stronger everyday. I want to give people hope. I want to be a great example to my future children and show them that life can be everything and more with the person you love but that you have to work at it.
Overall, when my time comes, I will embrace it as if it is my last chance. It will come and I will live happily forever after!